Source : Frozen Thoughts magazine, July 2009 issue
Author : T.T. Ranga Rajan
No single person, no single event, no single experience has the right to sit inside your head and continue to disturb the peace of your mind. No single person, no single event, no single experience should ever be given such exalted status as to have the power over the peace of your mind. For the sake of your peace, let go of anything, let go of anybody, who continue to rattle you from within the chambers of your own mind and heart. Your mind and heart should be the seat of your peace and not the seat of someone or something that keeps disturbing you. Nothing at the cost of your peace. Everything for the sake of your peace. Learn to let go, not in physical sense, but in an emotional sense. Free your mind and heart of any disturbing elements. Let go whatever. Let go whoever. Put your peace above everything.
Your within can either be a basket of fragrant flowers or a vessel of acid? When you let go the source of your hurt, you experience an inner flowering. Else you keep, self destructing yourself like how acid would destroy the vessel, which contains it.
People hurt you out of their ignorance and immaturity. And, you allow yourself to be hurt out of your ignorance and your immaturity. We cannot control the ignorance and immaturity of the world. But we can do something about our side of the story. The fact of the matter is that between the hater and the hated, it is always the hater who gets hurt more. While your hatred may do nothing to the other, it certainly gives you sleepless nights, builds ulcer and the acidity in you, keeps you constantly agitated, and above all, does not allow you to be at peace with yourself. So, what do you get out of living with hurt? So, what is the point in reliving hurt? Nobody gains and for sure, you definitely lose. Why will you live with something as meaningless as hurt?
In a physical sense, people or event that hurts you happen once. But you rewind and replay the hurt a zillion times. The more you process it, the deeper it hurts. The only reason you may be living with hurt is that you do not understand the value of your peace. You have given a source of disturbance a higher presence within you than your own peace. That's why I say, you allow yourself to be hurt out of your own ignorance and immaturity.
If at all anything or anybody is wrong, let them continue to live outside you. Don't give them a presence within your mind and heart. Let your mind and heart house only those who are a source of your peace. The rest, let them go....
In letting go of your hurt, you will be letting in peace. A peaceful you is a beautiful you. The good news is, you can be beautiful. The very good news is, it is in your very hands. See... even the thought of 'let go' is getting you the smile....
சாரி ராங் நம்பர்..
Someone hacked G3 akka blog!!
Karthi
@Sanjai,
:)))))))))))))))
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@Karthik,
Enda en???
ya..ya.. correct..
a for apple.. b for baby..
அய்யய்யோ...இங்கிலிபீசு!!!!
ஆத்தா மகமாயீ...தெரியாம உள்ள வந்துட்டேன்.. மன்னிச்சுடுமா..
இங்க இவ்ளோ பேரு இருக்கீங்களே...யாரவது ஒருத்தர் கண்ண காட்டிருக்க கூடாதா..அப்பவே பின்னங்கால் பிடறில அடிக்க ஓடி இருப்பனே!!
@K4K & Madura,
:))))))))))))))))))
Waa!
Mind blowing article so what I needed right now! chance ellli zillion thanks for posting it here. God bless!
We sure have to learn to let go of things that bothers us be it person , stuff or anything. After all nothing is end of the world we still have legs and hands to walk and eat :) eyes to see the beauty around, nose to smell lovely flowers, and ears to hear amazing music that stirs our souls.
I am grateful for today, for this post for the friend like u , who are around to show me life is all about peace and happiness and nothing..NOTHING really matters!!
Wishing u loads of love and peace
Sri
I got to save this somewhere so I can read it when its needed. I keep telling myself to remember such things when i am down :)
May be u can start a blog site and post such things regularly
Oh .. apdi soltaangala..?
hi gayathri epdi iruka though i read ur blogs regularly this post made me comment a very good post thanksma :)
hurt the hurt which is gonna hurt u .. and keep ur heart unhurt ..
எப்பூடி நாங்களும் english'ல கருத்து சொல்வோம்ல..
@Srivats,
:))))))
Naan ellamae andha frozen thoughts magazinela padikkaradhula enakku romba pudichadha mattum share pandren.. avlo dhaan.. mathabadi thaniya blog podara alavukku edhuvum illae.. unga easy accesskku indha postskku mattum Frozen thoughts nu label pottirukken.. padikkanumnu thondrappo u can just access through the labels :))))
//Wishing u loads of love and peace //
Thank u :)) Wishing u too loads of love and peace :D
@R-ambam,
Aamanga.. appadi thaan sollitaanga :))))
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@Veda,
Thanks veda :))))))
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@Sampath,
:))))))))))
Theliva irukkeenga :)))
Letting go is something dat every1have to come thru....
its more than juz relaxation. Thnx G3!
துரை இங்கிலீஷ் எல்லாம் பேசுறாங்க .........
தமிழ் translation எங்கே கிடைக்கும்
naan ellam green tamilan
@Punitha,
Nandri punitha :)))
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@Mayvee,
Translation enga kedaikkumnu neenga kandubidichaalum sollunga... adhayum oru pathiva potralaam ;-))
//naan ellam green tamilan//
Nallavae theriyudhu :)))))
ஐயோ...
பீட்டரு...
/*People hurt you out of their ignorance and immaturity. And, you allow yourself to be hurt out of your ignorance and your immaturity. */
true words and a wonderful article..
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G3 அக்காக்கு என்ன ஆச்சு... வெயில் கூட கொஞ்சம் கம்மியா தானே அடிக்குது சென்னை-ல :P
சாரி ராங் நம்பர்//
றிப்பீட்டேஏஏ
@JK & Kana prabha,
:)))))))))))))))))
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@Kanagu,
//true words and a wonderful article..//
Indha commenta podarappo ungalukku enna aacho adhae dhaan enakkum aachchu :)))))
ijit?
4 pieces ...not enuff...wat to do... y blud..same blud
i don't know u ;)
@Gils & Kana,
:-P
தொரை இங்கிலிபீஸ் பேசுது..ஆயில்ஸ் உடனே வாங்களேன்! :-) மீ த எஸ்கேப்!
a
b
c
d
அவ்ளோதாம்ப்பா எனக்குத் தெரியும்..மீதியை எங்க பாஸ் ஆயில்ஸ் வந்து பார்த்துக்குவாரு!! ஹிஹி
//சாரி ராங் நம்பர்//
றிப்பீட்டேஏஏ//
ரிப்பிட்டேய்ய்ய்ய்ய்!
//கானா பிரபா said...
i don't know u ;)//
வாவ்
இது கா.பியா????
சூப்பர்ர்ர்ர்ர்ர்ர்ர்
//சந்தனமுல்லை said...
தொரை இங்கிலிபீஸ் பேசுது..ஆயில்ஸ் உடனே வாங்களேன்! :-)//
ஆச்சி யூ டோண்ட் நோ
ஐ டோண்ட் நோ
நோ படி டோண்ட் நோ வாட் ஷி ரோட் ஹியர் - சாரி மீ டு எஸ்கேப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்ப்